The Thing About: Sex

The thing about sex is that it's a completely natural thing to want to do.

The thing about sex is that you are not wrong for wanting, or not wanting to, have it.

The thing about sex is that it feels great, and you should not feel ashamed for admitting it.

The thing about sex is that you can do what you want regarding it, it's your body, it's your rules.

The thing about sex is that it's not sex if it isn't consensual.

The thing about sex is that you can save it for marriage, or don't, and that's ok.

The thing about sex is that you can have it with the your committed partner, or enjoy safe, consensual, casual sex, and it's all fine.

The thing about sex is that you shouldn't let other people pressure you into doing it before you're ready.

The thing about sex is that as long as it's safe, legal, consensual and doesn't hurt anyone, go have as much sex as you want.

The thing about sex is that it's just sex, and having it, or not having it, will not change you as a person.

You are more than your sex life. You are a human, a wonderfully intricate, three-dimensional, and amazing individual. Don't let others control you and dictate your actions based on their morals and their codes and rules. You are you, and they are them. If they hate on you and try to change you, because you are different from them, honestly, tell them to shove it up their ass, and walk away.

Have sex or don't, but always remember to be safe and obtain consent. Have fun fucking 💞

Love,

Ber

Updates! ♡

Hey all! ♡

Year 1 Sem 2 has just started and it's only been my first week back and I've been so busy. 

I'm really working to up my GPA this semester so I'm putting in a lot more effort for my work. 

These are some pretty stellar collages I made for Concept Research and the theme is Our Natural World. I spent like 5 hours on it and I'm pretty proud of it. I have the right to be proud, right? 

Well, I hope my teacher likes it. She can be pretty anal sometimes. 

Also, I'm still not done with editing the video and the post about my Aussie trip, which blows, because I keep putting it off! HAHAHA. I hope I'll get to work on it soon.

That's all for now. I'll try to update when interesting things happen. But I have a pretty boring life so don't expect much.

Love,

Ber ♡

P.S. 

Don't steal my work. 

#ChickFamilyAusTrip2K14 Day 0

HEY EVERYONE IT ME

me

It me

I am Ber

Yes me

Here with a quick update

The time now is 11:16PM and my ass is still at home. My luggage is all packed and I'm ready to go, but since my flight is literally at 2:45AM, imma chill.

So I decided to pack my laptop in the end because it isn't even that heavy and I rather have small daily updates instead of shoving a long ass post down your throats when I'm back.

You can keep up with me easier if you check out my twitter @brncng, I'll be tweeting up till boarding and once we land in Sydney and I get my SIM card. My instagram (same user as twitter) will also be flooded with posts and you can track the tag #ChickFamilyAusTrip2K14.

I also downloaded like 8 albums to my phone so I can listen to more songs on the flight. I finally listened to Centuries and it makes me feel like aggressively doing a lyrical dance.

Still not sure if I'll be doing any vlogs. Idek what people wanna watch tbh. I'm mediocre at makeup. Maybe I'll just post something simple up, yeah?

The time now is 11:25PM and I've been sitting at this desk for 9 minutes writing this. I can't wait to sleep on the plane or at the airport. 2:45AM.

Can you even imagine how shit I'm gonna look in the morning? When we arrive in Sydney, it'll be afternoon. Everyone will be looking at me and be like who is this ugly Asian midget troll

And I'll sit on the floor and cry while I eat a bag of chips.

Idk how to sign off this shit so I'm just gonna say bye

Bye,
Ber

Going Greek

Hey guys!

Today was a long day. Claire and I finally managed to shoot together! Our shoot was grecian themed and was so much fun. A more detailed post is up on our shared Wordpress. You can find it here at: http://theesthetiqueblog.wordpress.com ♡

These are just my personal favorites. Claire has a lot of great shots up on the wordpress. You should check it out. Here are some of mine! All of these shots were taken by Claire. And as much as I love being behind the lens, being in front of it was a good change too. I hope to shoot with her again soon! ♡

I'm flying off to Australia at the end of the week with my two very close friends, Jillian and Lianne for a holiday. I anticipate a lot of photos will be taken. A lot of spastic ones and a lot of good ones! 

And I may be meeting Harry when we fly to the Gold Coast. For those who don't know who Harry is, no it's not Styles or Potter. And I'll explain it all in another post. Another story for another day. 

I'll be back on the 6th of October and I don't think I'll be blogging till then. If I do, it'll probs be from mobile. I haven't decided if I'll bring my Mac there. 

Thank you for visiting and I promise I'll update as soon as I can!

Stay cute xo,

Ber

P.S

Don't forget to follow me on Instagram: @iridvscvnt and track our tag #ChickFamilyAusTrip2K14!